DON'T SHOUT AT A LOVED ONE

WHY YOU SHOULDN'T SHOUT AT YOUR LOVED ONES
         HEY guys,have you really wondered why our voice keep rising when we are upset with someone.Well,wonder no more.Here's an explanation to that.
        A professor was teaching about proverbs15:1,He asked his students,"why do people shout at each other when they are upset?"The students thought for a while...One said,because we loose our calm.But why shout when the other person is just next to you?asked the professor,Isn't possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice?Why do you have to shout at a person when you are angry?,The students gave some more reasons but none satisfied the professor.Finally he explained,"when two people are angry at each other,there is a distance between their hearts psychologically.To cover the distance,they must shout to be able to hear each other through that great distance.Then,the professor asked,what ha....opens when two people fall in love?They don't shout at each other but talk softly.why?Because their hearts are psychologically close .The distance between them is very slim.The professor continued,"when they love each other even more,what happens?,They don't speak,only whisper and they even get closer to each other in their love.Finally,he concluded,they even need not whisper,they only look at each other and that's all.......unspoken words says it all at this stage
So,next time you shout on a loved one,just know that you are creating a distance between your hearts.Proverbs15:1 says;a gentle answer turns away wrath but a harsh word stirs up anger.........thank you