Are you physically,sexually or verbally abused??? Here is what you don't know about the abuser;the one who abuses you is afraid of you,he thinks you are the weaker person but in the real sense he is the one who weaker.He wants to do everything possible to bring you to his level(the cheap state of mind).He says or does things that will make me feel less than who you truly are.Sometime,it's not about hate or envy but for fear of seeing you rise above them.They can't stand your awesomeness,they can't stand your esteem,they know that if they let you be,you will definitely get better than them.So,the only way to stop you is to make you feel bad about yourself by abusing you.they will make you start seeing yourself lesser than you can ever imagine hence being your own destroyer which brings about your undoing.
But hey!!!,I'm sure no one wants to go down just like that.So,now you have to take a decision that no matter what anyone does or says to you,you will never see yourself lesser ,you will never think low of yourself no matter.you have to disappoint the abuser's intentions.you have to take a stand.you will have to make a decision to never go below your standards no matter what is said or done to you.Make a decision to always think highly of yourself at every point.Always view and see yourself to be bouncing on the springboard;hence never goibg down with the abuser but higher and better always.FRIENDS!!!;Remember,all these has to do with mindest,stablize yours and nothing done to you can ever destroy you physically,emotionally or even psychologically.
*****Being abused is not an excuse to be abusive****,*An abuser is the lesser being****
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